Tuesday, March 31, 2009 ' 10:48 PM
heys ppl o.o HAHA! :P long time no blog! =X here to blog again! but nt v sure of wat to blog! =X so i'm here to jus crap lots! (as usual) =X
haha! lets talk bout the simple yet complicated thing, love. =D to me la, love is a v complex thing, bcos u nid to understand ur partner's needs and wants, but also hope tat ur partner will understand urs. this way, love is for two hands to clap, a game for two players, a duet for a music performance, and a string that ties two hearts tgt! =D its quite difficult to manage, honestly! when things happen, we often ask ourselves, whether we shld giv in, or shld we not? haha =D whether we shld giv our partner a big scolding, or giv him/her the forgiveness and understanding. =D aint tat complicated! =X
YET! love has its simplicity in it! =D the simplest things like a kiss or a hug, or even mushy words, can bring the widest and true-est smile to anybody (in love). =D even if its a tiny action like volunteering to fetch u home, or to visit u when u r sick, or best of all, to buy lunch for u knowing tat u r bz at work/sch. =D all these add up to the joy of love. =D the concern and care that the person brings to u, u feel the fortune, u feel the luck, n u feel the love. =D tats wat love is all about.
but nt to forget, love is always vulnerable and fragile (if not managed properly). love has its weak points, bcos rmb...its two ppl. two ppl wif different minds, needs, wants and desires! if they dislike a certain action (eg, smoking or vulgarities), it can bring tension to the relationship. although to many, these may be MINOR or negligible actions, but to some...it means alot. =D jus think bout it, if your partner flirts wif another person, infront of u, i believe one will definitely feel jealous. the 1st few times may not lead to undesirable consequences, but in the future, the accumulation of frustration and anger may lead to the worst scenarios anyone will ever imagine! =X
hence, (ok i seriously sound like a love consultant). i find it that in love, always consider ur partner's feelings. no matter wat, even if its in jus a minor conversation over msn/phone or even real life, it tells alot. in the convo, if one side constantly speaks bout his/her life's stuffs (which sometimes, the other party may not be so interested in), things can get nasty. o.o one side will feel the boredom, while the other will feel the ignorance. tension comes about, n BOOM! =D haha!
so take cares ppl. =D those in love, seriously be in love. =D treasure the one u love, and tell ur loved one to return tat love to u. (although its quite obvious tat u dun hav to tell him/her tat) =X haha! plus, those not in love, i realli hope u all will find ur lifelong happiness =D will find the love of ur life, tat brings tat feeling...the warmth of the warmest hug, the sweetness of the sweetest kiss and the truth of the true-est smiles. =D tat feeling, is nv forgettable. its jus like the 1st time u meet up him/her for a date. ur heart pumps as u await for his/her arrival, hoping tat once u see him/her, the 1st thing u wanna do is to hug him/her tightly in ur arms, kiss him/her on the cheek/lips and grab his/her hand to ur destination. the anxiety and nervousness of getting rdy to say lots of stuffs (like mushy phrases or suggestion of smth u wanted to do wif him/her in a short moment) will all be thr. n if true love removed all this, then ur partner will no longer be special. bcos u feel no anxiety, no nervousness, no pumping hearts, to your frens. this way, ur partner is no difference from ur frens. =X
wahaha =D so ppl! realli hope u all can live happily ever after. find ur love of ur life, and live the next half of ur life with ur other half. =D i wish all of u, a blissful and happy relationship, and may there be the never-ending pumping of ur heart towards tat speacial someone of urs =D LOVE IS IN THE AIR!!!~
